Bereavement counsellors may be able to provide support during these very difficult times. Talking about the loss often allows a person to adjust to their new life with all its changes - good and bad.
Keeping things bottled up or denying the sadness could prolong the pain. Any loss has to be acknowledged in order to move forward. Bereavement counselling can help people find a place for their loss, so they can carry on with life and eventually find acceptance.
We don't have our own team of bereavement counsellors, but you could speak to your G.P. or Church Minister. Also there are many local and national organisations who can help you, see below.